How to become a submissive partner

Regardless of how most people see it there is a great power in being the submissive partner in a relationship. It takes a very confident individual to let go and give someone else control over their life’s . Have you found yourself asking questions like ‘ What does it mean to be a submissive? ‘ ‘Can someone change to be a submissive partner? And if so how can you undergo such a transformation without actual loosing yourself.

Becoming a submissive partner is not something that happens overnight but takes time and discipline and sometimes can take years to master but your relationship will flourish from it and become more peaceful and passionate. In this blog we go over 8 changes you can make over a 8 week period that will transform your relationship and help you become the helper your partner needs.

Know your Partner

Start by paying attention to the little things your partner does and thus knowing him better than he knows himself. When you start to understand what upsets your partner and things you can do to not aggravate him then you fight less witch leads to a happier home. When your partner comes home angry after a long day at work you should know whether he needs you to massage his neck while talking about his problems or a beer and peace and quiet because if you don’t know him well then all that anger can be directed at you. 

Knowing your partner means less fights and leads to a happy home.

Communicate Love 

Communication is more than what you say but also how you say it. Your Partner comes home from work and finds you watching tv so you says ‘hi baby’ just doesn’t touch your partner the same as if you jump up give him a kiss and say ‘hi baby’ . The same situation with the same words but a simple kiss shows appreciation and love. When people say don’t tell me you love me but show me this is what they mean. If your partner feels love they will show love so your partner is more likely to pick up a bunch of roses on the way home if he knows he will find love. 

Put his needs first 

When you’ve taken time to know your partner you will know all the things he prefers. Putting the channel on the golf channel when he gets home is a example of a small thing you can do to show him that his needs matter to you. When your partner feels you go out of your way to make them happy then he will go out of his way to make you happy. Looking good for him when you know he will be home soon is also a way to show love.

Manage your anger

In any relationship couples fight no matter how great the relationship and that is something you must learn to accept and mater. Learning to fight fair is simple for a submissive because you don’t have to say a word when you feel overwhelmed. CRY and that’s all. If you try to bring up a point or you’re telling your partner of something they are doing wrong and they become angry and raise their voice ‘cry’. When you cry your partner feels bad and you will get what you want more often but if you shout back then you challenge his masculinity.

 

Go the extra mile

There are small things your partner does that may irritate you but going the extra mile will benefit your relationship greatly. He leaves his shoes by the door again instead of putting them where they belong. You get angry or go the extra mile. Think of all the things he does for you and it will be easy to pick up those shoes and put them where they belong. Getting angry only makes you mad and spoiled your day after all.

Appreciate everything 

When your partner does something for you regardless of how small say thank you. Tell him how much you appreciate him and miss him when he’s gone and that will make home a happy place he wants to come home to.

Allow him to lead

When making decisions let him take charge and then you won’t have to worry about anything that can go wrong. By letting him lead you have more time to tend to the kids or simply relax knowing your partner will take care of it and you trust him.

Be his helper

Your partner has allot of stress already trying to provide for the family so the least you could do is have the house clean and dinner ready when he gets home. Being your partners helper means you fill in where he’s lacking so if you know he forgets to pay his fines then doing that is being his helper.

Being a submissive partner means to trust and without it the relationship will not work. It takes great courage and confidence to imbark on the road less traveled. Being a submissive will become a lifestyle that will make you the queen of your castle